Well here we are little you, we’re on part two as to why you are wonderful.
They say that in life you’ll meet people who change you for good – to me, you’re one of those people. I’m not sure where you’ve summoned this strength from over the last few weeks but it’s incredible. You’ve not only kept yourself going but you’ve been there for your family too and that’ll always amaze me. Not because I didn’t think you could have done it, but because what you’ve been going through is frankly shit. It’s not fair. I really do think that was the worst night of my life and without a shadow of a doubt yours too, but even through that you managed to care for others ahead of yourself. You’ve been incredible, without you people would not have moved on the way they have. I know you want to fix things and believe me without your knowledge, your kindness and your fantastic support, people wouldn’t have progressed as far as they have. You’re irreplaceable.
I don’t think I’ll ever be able to imagine how this all must feel for you, so all I can hope for is that I have and will always be able to help you in some way.
That night you found courage that I don’t even think you knew you had, but you did babe – you really can do anything. I think your determination to keep things going has proved that through and through. The thing is though, courage isn’t about not crying and being manly, it’s about letting your feelings show, your thoughts be known and opening up to and admiting to how you feel.
It’s so okay to say that you’re scared and you’re sad and I think your ability to be strong and sensitive is extraordinary.
I have no doubt that I will be the luckiest woman alive to get to have you by my side forever. I also couldn’t wish for a better Dad to our children – you’ll be incredible. If they’re anything like you, the world will be so lucky. They’ll have the best person they could wish for to learn from and to be there by their side.
Every day you amaze me, your kindness, your strength, your good heart, your warmth, your selflessness, your humour and your good spirit to make others happy are just a few of your amazing qualities.
I love how important family is to you. Writing this has shown me just how much I really do adore everything about you. I’m so excited and honoured to share my life with you. It’ll be an absolute dream to make more memories with you. Whenever I see, hear or do anything interesting all I want to do is share it with you – are you like that? I want you to feel what I feel and vice verca.
I’m well aware of how cliche I sound right now but you really do make me feel whole. Without you I’d be half the person I could be (and that’s not even due to slimming world!) Over the last few years you’ve given me so much confidence and for that I’m so grateful. I know you aren’t feeling all that confident now, but I’m going to do my best to show you how remarkable you are. Just look at how far you’ve come and how much you’ve achieved. Not just in these last few weeks but the last few years. I am so proud of you.
I hope this helps you because to me you really are, without a doubt, wonderful.
I love you.